Serendipitously, three miracles graced my life this week, two in the form of terrific television and film, and one in an elegantly written print story about a woman of valor.
Sometimes, not always, I love it when life mugs me, especially when serendipitous happenings tear open my heart and my eyes, lift me out of despair, and, I know, will change me forever.
This time it was two “movies” that did it; one made for television this year; one crafted for the big screen 10 years ago. Both were elevated even higher by a New York Times piece about Michele Singer Reiner, titled “A Life Rooted in Activism & Listening to Others.” It was written by the Times Tayla Minsberg, and published on Sunday, December 21, 2025.
The brilliant hour of television which grabbed me was Episode 5 of the new HBO Max series “Heated Rivalry.”
A fun, not-quite-soft porn Canadien series about two male hockey players who fall madly in love, had been entertaining escapist television for the first four episodes, with lots of action, lots of beautiful bodies (no frontal nudity), and a desultory script about an unlikely pairing of arch-rival hockey plays, from Canada and Russia.
The breakaway star of the mini-series, from the very first scene, was the Russian Hockey Star Ilya Rosanov, played by American action Connor Storrie, whose James Dean vibe, and Patrick Swazye/Rudolf Nureyev rugged good looks would have been enough to make anyone sit up and take notice. But Storrie went one better. He perfected a Russian accent and attitude of arrogant confidence that electrified every scene in which he appeared.
Storrie’s Canadian counterpart, Shane Hollander, played by Hudson Williams played the perfect straight-arrow (although not sexually) professional athlete, who’s “boring” personality, was a friendly foil for the risque Russian. Except for a few naked love scenes (butts only), locker room scenes, kissing sequences, and a coquette-ish coupling between yet another hockey player (played by Francois Arnaud) and a NYC-based barrista, “Heated Rivalry” could have been confused for an after-school special. Until, along came Storrie. In every scene. In every conversation. With every look. In every way imaginable.
Rosanov’s back-story—son of a Russian Police apparatchik, brother of a coke-addict draining his famous hockey-playing brother for money, superstar in a nation notorious for violent punishment against the LGBTQ community—was riveting enough to hold your interest and keep you guessing, throughout the first 4 episodes, where the only other big on-screen mystery was how the talented hockey players could find ways to discreetly hook up for sex, without their families, and the rest of the world, knowing. But, there was a sameness settling in. Until, Episode 5.
Episode 5 began with Hollander (Hudson Williams) opening up to a movie-star girlfriend of his about being attracted to men, and Ilya in Moscow, mourning the death of his father. Distraught with grief, and feeling trapped by his life’s circumstances, Ilya calls Hollander on his cellphone, and is frustrated by his inability to express his feelings to him in English. Hollander, as deeply in love with the Russian hockey star as Ilya is with him, gently urges Rosanov to express himself to him in Russian, just to let things out.
Storrie (Ilya) steals the scene, and the series, with an explosive monologue of his feelings for Hollander and the urgency of his need to be himself. The power of this Russian’s repressed feelings pours out of Rosanov, and the English subtitles do no justice to his extraordinary expression of anger, frustration, desperation and love.
But, Hollander’s (Williams’) facial expressions are better than any literal translation. Even though the Canadian doesn’t understand a word of Russian, the depth of Ilya’s feelings transcend the barriers of language, and pierce the audience, and Hollander, with the universal language of love and aguish and desire.
The scene may be among the best on television this year, and Storrie’s stirring performance has him marked for superstardom. This was James Dean in Rebel Without a Cause. The performance was transformative.
So, I turned to another film intended to be a vehicle for expressing deep emotion that could not be expressed in person, or even completely understood in the same native language: Being Charlie, the 2015 film written by Nick Reiner, and directed by his father, Actor/Director/Producer Rob Reiner.
Being Charlie tracked the story of Nick Reiner’s descent into heroine and cocaine addiction, his struggle with mental illness, and his inability to communicate his feelings to his famous father. Interviews of both Reiners when the film debuted 10 years ago, quoted Nick, who earlier this month is alleged to have stabbed his father and his mother, Michele Singer Reiner to death, as having felt overshadowed by the lives of his famous father, and his famous grandfather Carl Reiner.
Watching “Being Charlie” was like watching a car drive off a cliff in slow motion, especially when you knew the real-life ending to this story which was meant to avoid that horrible descent into hell. A quote from the character playing the father was particularly haunting, since it was the precise quote Rob Reiner gave to media 10 years ago in explaining his approach to his son’s addiction: “We listened to every expert with a degree and a desk who recommended that tough love was what you needed.”
Tragically, the experts were wrong. That wasn’t what Nick Reiner needed, nor were Nick Reiner’s 18-trips into and out of rehab centers, and repeated relapses into drug addiction. Nor, sadly, was making a film about his addiction with the father —a sure fire formula for a happy Hollywood ending, some thought.
In “Being Charlie”, the character of the mother listens carefully to her son, and appears to be able to get through to him, when no one else can, although not without great struggle, which only families grappling with mental illness can fathom.
The New York Times story about Michele Singer Reiner, gives us a bit more clarity into the life of the least famous Reiner, the daughter of an Auschwitz survivor, whose mission in her family and community was to make sure everyone was heard.
“One conversation at a time,” Ms. Singer Reiner would say at the dinner table, clinking her glass with a utensil. “One conversation.”
She believe in Tikkun Olam, the Jewish principle of repairing the world, and never giving up on fighting for what one believed was right. She prodded her famous husband to use his celebrity to advance social causes, and led the way in helping to overturn California’s Propostion 8, the ban on same sex marriage.
The Times reported the observations of Kris Perry, a plaintiff in the case that overturned Proposition 8, who later became a friend of the Reiner Family. “They didn’t just hop in and out or swoop in and get attention—they were just quietly there,” Perry said.
As the Times noted: “When Ms. Perry took the stand and was asked why she wanted to get married to her partner, Sandy, she looked at the Reiners (Rob & Michele) who were sitting in the front row.”
13-years to the day of the Sandy Hook Gun Massacre of 20 children, gun violence fueled by hate & madness, killed 15 Jews celebrating Hanukkah in Australia, and 2 Brown University students in R.I.
(Artwork by Ezra Jack Keats, a Jewish artist and writer, who dedicated his life’s work to fighting discrimination against others.)
On the 13th Anniversary of the Sandy Hook Elementary School gun massacre of 20 children — ages 6 & 7 — and six adults, the news of a mass murder of Jews celebrating Hanukkah in Sydney, Austalia, and the killing of 2 Brown University Students, served as a stark reminder that the unimaginable has become all too real again and again.
No place is safe, nor immune from gun violence — not bucolic college campuses, not beautiful beaches full of holiday revelers, not elementary schools with walls adorned by the innocent artwork of our babies.
As the never-ending mind-numbing news from Australia and Providence, Rhode Island continues to unfold, Daniel Barden’s smiling, toothless 7-year old face keeps flashing in front of me, as does the unbridled joy of his classmate Dylan Hockley, flapping his arms in delight like a “beautiful butterfly.”
Daniel & Dylan — two of the babies ripped from us in Sandy Hook — would be 20 years old today. For many of us, they are our children, our grandchildren, and they are alive every day through our efforts, and through the work of https://www.sandyhookpromise.org, the anti-gun violence organization founded by the parents of Sandy Hook’s children.
Tonight, I will celebrate Hanukkah with my family at home, in California, with our precious granddaughters. Part of me will also be in Sydney, Australia, and Sandy Hook, and Providence, R.I. The unimaginable is with us, again and again and again, and it is an inerasable memory.
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I first heard the news reports about the massacre of 20 first graders Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Connecticut, after I walked out of court in Marin County, California, and turned my car radio on that December 14, 2012.
I had just secured a restraining order from a judge to prevent a mentally ill individual, who bragged he had a gun, from coming onto the campus of the Institute of Noetic Sciences (IONS) which I was running at the time. He had threatened several of my staff members, and starting ranting to the judge that the CIA was after him.
The judge asked me if I had anything further to add, and I rolled my eyes and said “No, your honor. I think my case has been made.” The Judge immediately granted the restraining order. We were fortunate; we had a warning; we had time to act.
If only, I thought, such warnings were paid attention to, and swift, stern legal action or mental health intervention was taken toward the young man who slaughtered 20 innocent babies–26 people in total–that terrible day in December, 2012.
Unimaginably, things have gotten worse since then, with the election of a heartless, brainless, shrunken souled tool of the NRA as President, the unbounded proliferation of assault weapons which can assassinate hundreds in a mere few minutes, the normalization of violence against people of different faiths, races, or nations, and the passage of a legislation in Congress and in States around the US, which would allow more individuals — including those with mental health warning signs — to more easily obtain weapons, and use them, anywhere they want.
Medical research into gun violence — the leading cause of death for children and teenagers, ages 1 through 17, according to Johns Hopkins Medical School — is being forcibly fought by fact-denying public officials, and by propagandists for the gun lobby in the US, and around the world, who are often the same shills.
Citizens in Florida, and many other states, are now permitted to openly carry weapons into grocery stores; pre-meditated gun murders are committed in a Pittsburg Synagogue because the congregants are Jews and they supported immigrant rights; in the historic Mother Emanuel Church in Charleston, South Carolina because the worshippers were Black: in a Buffalo supermarket, with a predominantly Black clientele; in Uvalde, Texas, an overwhelmingly Latino community; in nightclubs where gays gather; at open-air concerts, at Walmarts, and at school after school after school.
On any given day, I walk past my granddaughters’ schools — all within proximity to my house — just to check that things are safe and calm, and nothing looks out of the ordinary, and that the windows covered with paper snowflakes, or announcements of bookfairs, or holiday concerts have not been shattered.
On any given occasion when I attend my synagogue in Santa Rosa, I thank the Security guards who are there to protect us, and look around the Sanctuary to size up the chair or book or item I would pick up to throw at an attacker, to save one life or maybe more.
I no longer want to listen to reason or engage in discussion on the subjects of guns or violence or hatred or inhumanity. I want gun confiscation without accommodation; I want crimes of hate against all people, regardless of difference, severely punished: I want hate speech and winks and nods toward violence banned, especially when uttered by public officials. I want acts of love and humanity to be recognized, elevated and rewarded.
I want all our children to live like beautiful butterflies, free from domestic violence, or random acts of violence, or State sponsored acts of violence, or war. I want them to live bathed in love, free of fear or famine, and protected from the consequences of the failures of the adults around them.
I want the unimaginable to become unimaginable once again.
Despite the actions taken by the Trump’s (DOS) under fellow Floridian Marco Rubio, to erase the memory of 700,000 Americans who died of HIV/AIDS, the work of Pedro Zamora and World AIDS Day lives on.
(The cover of Judd Winick’s graphic novel, “Pedro and Me,” (Henry Holt & Co, NY, 2000) which tracked Judd and Pedro’s friendship on MTV’s “Real World,” and how Pedro proceeded to change the world.)
Marco Rubio was five miles away from the bedside of Pedro Zamora when the first Cuban born, internationally recognized AIDS educator died of severe complications from HIV/AIDS related illnesses on November 11, 1994.
Zamora, then 22 years old, catapulted to global fame by revealing his HIV positive status in MTV’s pioneering series “Real World,” died at Merci Hospital in Miami, while Rubio, age 23, was fumbling through his second year of law school at the University of Miami in Coral Gables.
The lives of these two Cuban-Americans—Zamora born just outside Havana; Rubio, born as an “anchor-baby” to his non-US citizen parents in Miami 9 months earlier—never intersected—in substance or in spirit— but the life and death consequences of their diametrically opposite actions have been extraordinary. Zamora gravitated toward the grace-filled path of public health education to help human beings and save lives; Rubio toward a plastic and pathetic path of denying facts he knows to be true for political gain, dismantling programs which he knows advance human health, and then eagerly erasing the memory of all who have died from his failure to act, and the millions more who will.
The U.S. Department of State’s order this week to stop recognizing World AIDS Day, despite the US being one of the original 148 nations supporting it as an effective tool for public health education since 1988, is a specific case in point, and it is happening direcly under Marco Rubio’s watch. Erase the memory of 700,000 Americans who have died of HIV/AIDS related-illnesses—and the enormous efforts to minimize that death and suffering—and you erase the problem, Rubio’s actions tell us.
In Pedro Zamora’s four brief years of life following his graduation from Hialeah High School in 1990, the year after he was diagnosed as HIV Positive during a routine Red Cross Blood Drive at his North Miami high school, Zamora became a source of life-saving information about HIV/AIDS to tens of millions of young people worldwide. His heroic efforts as a private citizen, with no power other than that of his own voice and conscience, saved lives and has only grown decades after his death.
The New York Times obituary written on November 12, 1994, described Zamora’s high school—in an overwhelmingly Cuban community—as “the place he returned to as a public speaker to warn young people like him to be careful.” Infected with the HIV virus in his Junior year at Hialeah High, Pedro’s goal was “to graduate before I die.”
A few months after he did graduate, as an honor student, President of the Science Club, captain of the Cross-country team, and voted by his peers as “most intellectual and most all-around,” Zamora—whose grades and school activities could have gained him admission to the most prestigious colleges in the United States—elected instead, to go to work for a Miami-based non-profit HIV/AIDS Resource Center, named Body Positive. He became an AIDS educator and travelled the country speaking to high school and college students about how to protect themselves from getting infected.
The New York Times wrote about Zamora’s work:
“It was in schools that he seemed to have his greatest effect. He passed around condoms in classrooms and minced no words…He would tell students that he got the virus from having unprotected sex, and that he’d probably not live to reach age 30. Some of them faced the same danger, he warned, unless they took precautions.
For many students, Zamora—articulate, the picture of good looks and good health—took the stigma away from what people had been bullied to believe about AIDS, and humanized the disease. If it could happen to him…
Zamora spoke in schools, colleges, churches and anywhere he could reach people, as a full-time AIDS educator, reaching thousands of his peers in Latino and Black communities, who were most at-risk of getting the virus. In 1993, the year Marco Rubio lumbered into law school, Pedro testified before Congress—during the height of the AIDS epidemic— calling for more explicit HIV/AIDS education programs that would speak in the language young people understood.
The different journeys of the Zamoras and the Rubios from Cuba to the United States only partially explain the differences in fundamental human values and community commitment between both families. Marco Rubio’s mother and father, natives of Cuba, left the Island in 1956 for economic reasons, and to escape the repressive and corrupt regime of President Fulgencio Batista, a paid puppet of Meyer Lansky and American organized Crime. Contrary to what Marco Rubio repeatedly claimed in his cavalcade of campaigns for public office in Florida since 1998, his parents did not flee Castro’s Cuba, since Castro did not come to power until three years after they had already left, and were settled in Miami. It was the first of many lies Rubio would tell in his public career.
Zamora’s father on the other hand, fought alongside Fidel Castro in the Cuban revolution against the corrupt and repressive Batista government, but quickly became disillusioned when the new Castro regime became just as authoritarian as Batista’s. The Zamoras did escape from Castro’s Cuba during the Mariel boat-lift of 1980, during the Presidency of Jimmy Carter. Pedro was eight years old at the time, when he, his parents, and one brother and sister, were packed onto a dangerously overcrowded boat, and made it to Hialeah, where they settled. Pedro’s mother would die of skin cancer several years later, in Florida, inspiring her youngest child to excel in science, with a goal of studying medicine to protect others from a similar gruesome death.
In twisted contrast, Marco Rubio’s family relocated from Florida to Las Vegas for a short time, where both of his parents worked in Casinos, reminiscent of the predominant jobs Cubans were force into in Batista’s reign of corruption in Cuba, when Lansky and his mobster associates were given carte blanche to operate casinos throughout Cuba, as long as they continued to pay off Batista and other corrupt officials in power.
Unlike Pedro Zamora, Marco Rubio did not show much promise or intelligence in high school, or immediately after. He went to a third-rate local Florida college on a football scholarship, and transferred within one-year to Sante Fe Community College, in Gainesville, Florida, where he received his BA in 1993—the same year Pedro Zamora was testifying before Congress about the AIDS epidemic. It was only after he graduated law school in 1996, and his election to the West Miami City Commission just two years later, that Marco Rubio begin to make his murky mark.
Unfortunately, like Rubio himself, that mark was only drawn in the sand of Florida’s beaches, and easily washed away by the most recent political currents. Originally a supporter of PEPFAR while a US Senator from Florida, who said that “every American should be proud of the program,” as Secretary of State, Rubio has presided over the systematic decimation of HIV/AIDS treatment programs of great urgency to millions of people living with HIV/AIDS around the world. According to USAIDS, more than 40 million people are living with HIV worldwide, including 1.3 million infected within the past year. For Rubio, there are no votes there.
Immediately upon being sworn in as Donald Trump’s Secretary of State in 2025, Rubio issued a “Stop Work Order,” on all PEPFAR programs—programs which had saved more than 26 million lives across 50 countries since being implemented by President George W. Bush two-decades ago.
“Does Marco Rubio want to be remembered as a Secretary of State who chose cowardice while PEPFAR was decimated and millions faced risk of death?” said Asia Russell, Executive Director of Health GAP. “Because that is the path he is choosing.”
“If these cuts to PEPFAR continue from Donald Trump, Marco Rubio, and the MAGA regime, their legacy will be the deaths of millions of people across the world,” said Matt Rose, senior public policy advocate for the Human Rights Campaign.
As we’ve witnessed with catastrophic cuts to HIV/AIDS programs at home and abroad, and to the termination of USAID food and medical assistance globally resulting in the deaths of 600,000 people—since Marco Rubio became Secretary of State—that appears to be the “legacy” Trump, Rubio, and his supporters seek.
Last month, the Kaiser Family Foundation reported on the current status of PEPFAR, thanks to Marco Rubio’s cowardice, and the ideological anti-science, anti-public health, anti-LGBTQ screed known as Project 2025 which Rubio still follows:
Funding freeze/stop-work order: The stop-work order initially froze all PEPFAR programming and services, halting existing work in the field, including provision of antiretroviral therapy. Because it halted payments, many implementers had to let go of thousands of staff and end some services.
Limited Waiver: PEPFAR received a limited waiver on February 1 (with additional information on February 6), allowing it to continue “life-saving HIV services”. However, the waiver only permits certain activities: HIV treatment and care, prevention of mother-to-child transmission (PMTCT), pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) for pregnant and breastfeeding women, and HIV testing. Other services, including PrEP for anyone else (including those already on PrEP) and HIV prevention more generally, as well as programming for orphans and vulnerable children, are not permitted. Even with the waiver, implementers faced challenges in getting permission to resume HIV programming and difficulties getting paid.
Dissolution of USAID: USAID was the main government implementing agency for PEPFAR, obligating 60% of its bilateral assistance in FY 2023. Without USAID and most of its staff, PEPFAR’s implementation capacity has been affected. In addition, announcements of reductions at CDC, PEPFAR’s second largest implementing agency (obligating 37% in FY 2023), could further affect PEPFAR.
Canceled awards: In early 2025 it was reported that the administration canceled 86% of all USAID awards. KFF analysis found that of the 770 global health awards identified, 379 included HIV activities, 71% of which were terminated, including several HIV treatment awards as well as most HIV prevention..Impact on PEPFAR Services and OutcomesNumerous other reports have documented the impacts of these actions on services and outcomes:
A recent analysis found that the disruption in PEPFAR funding was associated with reduced access to HIV services and commodities, including antiretroviral treatment, PrEP, and HIV, CD4, and viral load tests.
UNAIDS offices have identified several impacts including: the loss of thousands of HIV health workers in Kenya, Malawi, South Africa and Mozambique; disruptions to diagnostic and treatment services for pregnant women and children in Zimbabwe; partial or complete cessation of community outreach services in Angola and Eswatini; and the expected loss of a quarter of the workforce of the largest network of people living with HIV in Ukraine.
A rapid assessment survey of 108 WHO country offices found that almost half reported moderate or severe disruptions to HIV services, including for medicines and health products, due to the U.S. foreign aid freeze and other shortages.
In addition to these impacts, several modeling studies have estimated potential effects of funding reductions. For example, one estimated that in sub-Saharan Africa, ending PEPFAR funding could result in 565,000 new HIV infections over 10 years and reduced life expectancy of people living with HIV by 3.71 life-years.
Despite Rubio’s mad-dash away from reality, the World AIDS Day theme for 2025 is perfectly on point: “Overcoming Disruption, Transforming the AIDS Response.”
Those of us who remember the courageous, visionary work of Pedro Zamora, and the thousands of others who are still fighting valiantly to ease the lives of the 40 million people worldwide still living with AIDS, have overcome greater disruptions, and more difficult threats to human life. HIV/AIDS is evolving, but by no means over. As my mother, a polio-survivor until age 92 continually reminded me: “It was 60 years since the identification of the Polio Virus, and the discovery of the Polio vaccine.”
Long-time leading AIDS Activist, educator and the co-founder of PrEP4ALL Peter Staley put all this agita into the proper perspective for The Advocate: “ It just seems to be petty and hostile, frankly. It’s very reminiscent of the Reagan Administration which largely ignored the epidemic.”
As the New York Times observed on November 25, 2025, when Marco Rubio ordered Department of State employees to “refrain from publicly promoting World AIDS Day through any communications channels,” the Times noted:
“Every year since 1988, the US has marked December 1, as World AIDS Day, when people mourn those who died of the the disease, honor efforts to contain the epidemic and raise awareness among the general public. Not this year.”
Yet, the original acts of AIDS Awareness since the discovery of the HIV Virus in 1981, did not come about because of government policy, but because of the absence of government policy. AIDS activists, like Pedro Zamora and Peter Staley and Cleve Jones drove awareness and action, and treatment and care, and pushed governments in the US around the world to respond.
We still will not be silenced, nor erased, nor go away. Too many friends have been lost, too much suffering has been endured; too much hope is at stake.
Look at Pedro Zamora’s life; look at his face, his promise, his struggle. Look at the enormous impact he had upon millions of lives in his too-short 22 years of life.
Then, look at the “petty, hostile” acts of Marco Rubio, Trump and Pogrom 2025’s hate screed. Then, ask yourself, whose side are you on? Will you permit all of what we’ve achieved over the past 40 years to be erased? Will you quietly allow the East Wing of the White House to be demolished? Will you stay quiet while 400,000 children are starved to death by the assassination of the food programs of USAID? Will you be silent while who and what you’ve loved all your life is obliterated?
Like Judd Winick, it’s Pedro and me. . . and you, who will determine the outcome.
The fearless Michelangelo Signorile wrote the best piece on the NYC Mayoral campaign, pointing out that Zohran Mamdani was the true heir to the ideals of Vito Marcantonio, LaGuardia and Mario Cuomo.
(Millions of words were written about the historic New York City 2025 Mayoral Campaign, which saw the highest voter turnout since 1969, and resulted in the overwhelming election of the first Muslim American to be NYC Mayor in history. None were as perceptive and incisive as this piece (see below) done by Michelangelo Signorile in his Substack column, “The Signorile Report.”
As with the election of all “firsts” in New York—the first Italian-American Mayor, the first Jewish Mayor, the first Black Mayor—the election of the first Muslim-American as Mayor was not without a barrage of hate and “fill in the blank_____Phobia) aimed at Mamdani. What was most disturbing for many of us who have fought against hate and bias our entire lives—and who worked for years with former Governor Mario Cuomo, a strong voice against discrimination of all kinds—was to hear so much of the hate speech coming from Cuomo’s own son, who knew better.
The Brooklyn-born Signorile has always courageously embraced truth, either in print, on his radio program, or on television. He is the author of four books, with his first, “Hitting Hard,” being published 20 years ago, becoming an instant bestseller, and smashing through many barriers for LGBTQ writers and our community.
His piece on the NYC Mayoral election of 2025 does precisely the same thing for ALL communities.)
Cuomo disgraced all Italian-Americans. Mamdani honored them in his closing.
Cuomo closed by demonizing immigrants, forgetting his own family history. Mamdani, in his closing video, lifted up the legacy of New York’s Italian-American political leaders who fought for workers.
As the New York mayor’s race came to a close, Andrew Cuomo ratcheted up racism and bigotry, embracing Islamophobia as he attacked Zohran Mamdani’s Muslim identity and faith.
Appearing on MAGA right-wing talk show host Sid Rosenberg’s program, Cuomo replied to Rosenberg’s grotesque claim Mamdani would “be cheering” if another 9/11 happened, by laughing and then stating, “That’s another problem.” Cuomo-aligned super PACs repeatedly ran racist ads, depicting Mamdani as dangerous because he’s Muslim.
It was on Maria Bartiromo’s show on Fox Business, however, where Cuomo and his host, both Italian-Americans, demonized Mamdani as an immigrant in ways their own families surely were treated when they came to this country. It was pretty stunning.
Whether it was about their grandparents or great-grandparents, Bartiromo and Cuomo surely know the stories of discrimination and hostility that lasted well into the early 20th century. They surely know that the earliest Italian-American immigrants were spit on, facing segregation and violence.
And yet, Bartiromo wondered how Mamdani, “is going to treat all of those people who are still in mourning from losing their lives? 3,000 people. I mean, all the first responders that we lost on 9-11.”
She continued:
I guess I’m wondering if you’re expecting New York to look more like London. You go to London right now and it is largely Muslim. Women are completely covered up.
Cuomo said that Mamdani is “out of sync with how New Yorkers feel,” even though New York is a city of immigrants and Mamdani is an immigrant.
“I just think he doesn’t get it. He’s dual citizenship,” Cuomo said. “He was a citizen of Uganda.”
It was breathtaking coming from people descended from a group that was once considered dirt in this country.
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As the Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Brent Staples wrote in a New York Times piece in 2019, headlined, “How Italians Became “White’”:
Darker skinned southern Italians endured the penalties of blackness on both sides of the Atlantic. In Italy, Northerners had long held that Southerners — particularly Sicilians — were an “uncivilized” and racially inferior people, too obviously African to be part of Europe.
Racist dogma about Southern Italians found fertile soil in the United States. As the historian Jennifer Guglielmo writes, the newcomers encountered waves of books, magazines and newspapers that “bombarded Americans with images of Italians as racially suspect.” They were sometimes shut out of schools, movie houses and labor unions, or consigned to church pews set aside for black people.
They were described in the press as “swarthy,” “kinky haired” members of a criminal race and derided in the streets with epithets like “dago,” “guinea” — a term of derision applied to enslaved Africans and their descendants — and more familiarly racist insults like “white nigger” and “nigger wop.”
The penalties of blackness went well beyond name-calling in the apartheid South. Italians who had come to the country as “free white persons” were often marked as black because they accepted “black” jobs in the Louisiana sugar fields or because they chose to live among African-Americans. This left them vulnerable to marauding mobs like the ones that hanged, shot, dismembered or burned alive thousands of black men, women and children across the South.
It was for that reason that Cuomo’s and Bartiromo’s conversation disgraced all Italian-Americans. These two certainly aren’t holding up the legacy of those Italian-Americans who pushed back against hate and also fought for the rights of workers, Jews, Latinos and many others.
But Mamdani is.
His closing video is remarkable, offering a history lesson and leaning in to the socialist polices of New York’s Mayor Fiorello La Guardia and the lesser known East Harlem Congressman Vito Marcantonio.
There are many who dismiss our vision for New York as impossible. To them, I say we need look only to our past for proof of how we can shape the future.
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La Guardia is a storied, iconic mayor in New York’s history, a man born to Italian immigrants who served as mayor from 1934 to 1946. Marcantonio, a seven-term member of the U.S. House, is less known but no less impactful for workers, promoting social policies that helped millions.
As Mamdani explains, Marcantonio, La Guardia’s protégé—known simply as Marc to folks in East Harlem—was an “unapologetic socialist” who was a “steadfast ally to organized labor” and immigrant workers. He investigated worker abuses and fought in Congress for the rights of workers:
He provided English literacy lessons to thousands of newly-arriving immigrants, and he fought to expand Social Security to the countless domestic workers who’d been excluded. In the words of the great Dorothy Day, “the poor of East Harlem felt that he loved them and was interested in them”….
When he was called a radical, Marc responded, “If it be radicalism to believe that our natural resources should be used for the benefit of all and not for the purposes of enriching just a few, then I plead guilty to the charge.”
Mamdani gets his inspiration from those who fought for equality many decades ago in New York. Cuomo arrogantly forgets the roots of Italian-American immigrants and Italian-American politicians and activists who fought for other immigrants, while he trashes immigrants like Mamdani and many others.
Mamdani, however, is inspired by those very Italian-American politicians in history and celebrates their achievements. It should shame Cuomo—if he were still capable of feeling shame. This makes Mamdani not only a class act; he’s a politician who knows his history, and who wants to build on the legacy of those who made a difference in people’s lives.
Trump world’s Tracey Flick (“ME, Pick ME,”) Elise StefanICK, and it’s 2nd Favorite Felon, Fraud & Con Man, George Santos–THE perfect Trump team for NYS, who’ll pardon Trump for ALL his State crimes.
George Santos & Elise Stefanik. It takes a fraud to know one. (official GOP Photo)
Over the past two years, I’ve written a few pieces about Georgie Santos, the former Drag Queen of a thousand lavish costume changes and faces.
Santos, a Diva Dirigible, hovering over two years of Republican politics, and endorsed and embraced by fellow Congressional con artists like Elise Stefanik and Lee Zeldin, had a tumultuous tumble from glory into the gory details of his lies, his make-believe-life, and finally, prison.
Like the Hindenburg blimp bursting into flames over Lakehurst, New Jersey, the imposter immolated himself as he lied and lied as fast as he could flap his arms and his gums, and got booted out of Congress.
Then, came a swath of indictments for breaking a number of federal laws, followed by his arrests, his criminal convictions, and finally, a 7 year jail sentence, for defrauding many of his followers out of some $350,000—all of which he was pardoned from by Trump earlier this year because he was “100% Trump.”
Santos, the shape shifting showman, quickly became Elise Stefanik’s favorite dragged queen. She raised money for her Georgie, and lavished praise upon him across New York State as a future Republican leader. Fortunately, we have photos, and it appears that Stefanik—the Tracey Flick of American politics—absorbed the Santos-style of lying and then lying about the lies she continues to tell. Like Georgie Santos, StefanICK was “100 % Trump.”
Affectionally known (by me) as “ICK” ( see my Ode to Ick, below) Tracy wants everything she sees. Congress? Sure. House leadership? Drool. Trump running mate? Of course! UN Ambassador? Why not, she was in the Model UN in High School! Governor of NY? YES! She did lead the NYS Young Republicans, before she mentored the latest crop of young anti-Semites presently heading the group! ICK will try anything! ESPECIALLY if it brings her more attention, and, could put her in a position to Pardon Donald Trump from all his New York State crimes! Win! Win!
Stefanik is skilled at coddling criminals, having winked at Georgie Santos’ illegal use of campaign funds for Botox, Spa Treatments, lavish hotel visits, fancy meals and expensive clothing—all such stereotypically Drag Queenie stuff. But ICK and her GOP ilk like her in the House, LOVE a good fraud, as evidenced by their cult-like boot-licking of Trump, and their continuing masquerading as “lawmakers,” ever since their foot-soldiers tried to burn the U.S. government down on January 6, 2021, and were pardoned of their felonies by the Felon-in-Chief.
Trump, and his busted little valise, Elise, advocated for a new lower level of cultishness I call “Santos Ria” (named after Georgie) built on a flim-flam framework of fraud, deception, lying and lawlessness by still—to this very day of ICK’s announcement of her candidacy of Governor of New York State— defending the pardoning of 1,500 January 6 Felons—among them many violent criminals, pedophiles, wife-beaters, anarchists, terrorists, thugs, and probably a few Communists.
ICK’S upstate New York Congressional Constituents—abandoned by her use/abuse raw ambition again and again—could be forgiven if they exhumed the long-dead body of Sam Stratton, and elected him in absentia to represent them. Even a Dead Sam would be better than being fleeced by Tracey StefanICK, shape-shifting as fast as she can into the form of her fellow Young Republican leader, Georgie Porgy Santos….
So before you even think you have to listen to the Elise the Busted Valise’s bloviation about Mamdani or liberals or Mike Johnson’s 6-week Congressional vacation to avoid discussion of the Epstein Files, remember who was the chief cheerleader for George “The Pardoned Felon” Santos as a key part of the “Next Generation of Republican Leadership.”
Isn’t that exactly the kind of judgement and constituent service you want to see in the Governorship of New York State? A vote for ICK is a vote supporting the pardon of Georgy Santos, a vote for the pardon of 1500 January 6 felons, and a vote for the futurepardon of Donald Trump for all of his New York State crimes.
A decadent party of America’s richest & most callous at Mar-A-Lago, celebrated the denial of Food Stamps to 40 million Americans, when destroying the SNAP program gave tax cuts to the rich.
(Donald Trump and his fat cat friends feasted and partied all Halloween Night at Mar-a-Lago while 40 million Americans, mostly children, worried about where their next meal was coming from. The only appropriate question is: What would the fitting punishment be for the cruel crime vs. humanity?)
Dancers at Trump’s Halloween party as people begin losing food stamps under his administration pic.twitter.com/LWknoEktw6
In Stephen King’s novel Thinner, an arrogant, obese, sleazy, wealthy and politically connected lawyer runs over and kills an old woman crossing the street, because he’s getting a hand-job in his car, and loses control of the steering wheel. The lawyer escapes legal punishment for the crime by leaning hard on all of his friends in the local police department and the courts to exonerate him.
Furious by the failure of this obese, crapulent, flatulent oligarch to be brought to justice, the woman’s 106-year old father—a member of a group of Romani (gypsy) outcasts casts a curse on the killer of his daughter by uttering one word: “thinner.”
The curse takes effect on the obese oligarch immediately. No matter how much fattening food he stuffs into his large pie-hole of a mouth—hamburgers, french fries, cheesecake, ice cream, gold-decorated chocolate bon bons—he loses weight at an incredible rate of speed. The more he gorges himself, the thinner he gets.
We’ve got to find a fitting punishment like that for each and every guest at Mar-A-Lago on Halloween Night, 2025, there to celebrate Donald Trump’s “Great Gatsby” themed Ball for Billionaires. They dined on the richest, most fattening foods, while 40 million Americans were being forced to go hungry, because the corpulent capitalists in the room took away the money meant for Food Stamps to gorge themselves on bigger pieces of seven-layer cake, and gargantuan tax cuts.
The grotesque sight of the nation’s wealthy, with their boiling teeth glistening in the glare of kleig lights and feather-fans, wallowing in wave after wave of festooned food they would never finish—having fun while they forced tens of millions of children to go hungry, could never be erased.
I shared with my granddaughter Stephen King’s story, and the curse of “thinner,” upon the truly evil, heinous and unjust, and the savvy 16-year old thought it wouldn’t be punishment enough for the jewelry-dripping perpetrators of crimes vs. our youngest humans.
“That crowd likes being thin,” she observed. “They spend all their waking hours obsessing over how to lose weight. I’d flip the curse, and call it “Fatter.”
I sat up straight.
“Brilliant, “I said to my brilliant grandchild. “Brilliant The more they stuff into their faces, and their pockets, the fatter, and more obese they get. Their caloric corpulence multiplies ten-fold. Each morsel of food they take away from the mouths of babes, adds layers of flab to every part of these pigs. Each dollar they take away from programs to help the the poor and working people, converts to pounds of flesh, where they least want it to show.”
I shared with her how Stephen King’s story ended, but we decided to come up with our own, more fitting ending.
They’d just burst, like Augustus Gloop, and exist no more.
